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10 Ways You Know You’re Over Your Ex

June 28, 2007

After my ex-boyfriend and I broke up several months ago, someone told me the best way to get over a breakup was to start dating right away: “It’s really the best way to get yourself distracted and to forget about your ex.” I didn’t take that person’s advice, and I’m glad I didn’t because I’ve learned that the best way to get over a breakup is to take some time for yourself to feel whole again and to heal first before getting into another relationship. [See my blog entitled How to Survive a Breakup]. In my opinion, rushing into a new relationship right away without first healing is tantamount to putting a band-aid over a knife stab.

I know plenty of people who rushed into a new relationship and are not over their exes. A friend of mine, for example, settled for someone who is — how can I put it gently? — not quite what he is looking for. Initially, they started seeing each other because he did not want to be alone after he and his ex broke up, and later because it was convenient. And now they’re sort of stuck because they are well into the relationship. Another friend started dating indiscriminately after she and her ex split, but on many occasions, had hooked up with her ex because she was still not over him. Another friend got into a monogamous relationship right after his breakup, but even after a long time, could not take his new relationship to the next level because he came to realize that the person he was dating was just a rebound girl. Another friend got into a monogamous relationship with a great guy whom she was willing to marry, but she still thought about her ex constantly and even googled his name on a regular basis and would tear up if she saw anything new about him or by him.

With this in mind, I want to share with you single people in the dating scene an article I read (from youvebeendumped) which talks about how one knows if one is over an ex:

1. Thinking about your ex less: you realize that you’re no longer thinking of your ex all the time and no longer torturing yourself about what could have been. Even when you do think about your ex from time to time (which is perfectly normal), it doesn’t make you feel sad, angry, hurt, bitter, etc. You may remember the goods times you’ve shared without bursting into tears.

2. Plotting: You’ve accepted that you and your ex are not getting back together, and you’ve stopped praying for reconciliation.

3. Music: You can listen to music that reminds you of your ex without being an emotional wreck. And not all love songs remind you of your ex anymore.

4. Pictures: You can look at old pictures of you and your ex with a sort of detachment. Sure, you may still feel a bit sentimental, but you are not bursting into tears thinking about the good old days, and any setback you feel is brief.

5. Ending the race: You don’t feel the need to prove anything to your ex, e.g., wishing to bump into your ex to show off a hot new “replacement” so that you can prove that you’ve moved on.

6. Not taking revenge: You’re pleased, or at least indifferent, when you hear that you’re ex is doing well, and you’re not secretly celebrating your ex’s misfortune.

7. Looking for him/her wherever you go: You don’t look into shops, bars, or other places where you ex might be, hoping to run into him/her. If you do run into your ex, though, and your heart races a little, it apparently does not mean that you are not over him/her.

8. Revisiting former haunts: You are able to go back to places where you and your ex used to go, which you have been avoiding since the split.

9. Your ex having sex …. with someone else: You can picture your ex having sex with someone else or being in a relationship with someone else, and it doesn’t make you hurt, angry, jealous, or extremely emotional.

10. Reading their horoscope: You’re no longer reading your ex’s horoscope and obsessing over your ex.

I liked the article. And even before I read that article, it suddenly hit me about a month ago that I was over my ex-boyfriend. I guess in some ways, knowing you’re over your ex is a lot like falling in love. You just know it. My ex, who didn’t seem to be too affected by our split and who never took any time for himself after our split, is probably still not completely over the breakup, but it seems like he’s well on his way to being healed. He asked me to have dinner with him a couple of weeks ago so that he could give me back the stuff I left behind. It was the first time we saw each other since we broke up. He told me he was lonely and started dating someone but ended their relationship before it got physical because he couldn’t really see himself dating anyone seriously before going back to his home country. He also told me that since I cut his hair just before we broke up, he had not cut his hair for sentimental reasons until the day before he came down to Philly for dinner. He then asked me if I regretted dating him for the past year or feel like I wasted my time, since he knew I would not have gotten into a relationship with anyone if there was no chance for the relationship to progress – and obviously, our relationship did not progress. And after dinner, as he gave me back my James Blunt CD, he asked me if I still like the singer and asked me if I had listened to “Goodbye My Lover” recently. As we parted, he said he felt a little sad seeing me, but he was happy to see that I was doing well. Hearing him say that made me feel a bit sentimental, but in some strange ways, I also felt at peace because I realized that even though a chapter of my life had already ended, I was ready to start a new chapter soon.

The moral of this story? Simple. Just don’t start dating simply to get over someone. Get to know yourself, take your time to heal, and feel good being alone before venturing into the next relationship. That’s what I did. And it helped me a great deal.

On a different note, here’s a good post you might also be interested in, written by yours truly for my firm‘s blog: Ten Steps to Take If You’re Laid Off (it deals with issues on discrimination, retaliation, lay offs, and other employment matters).

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  1. Julie permalink
    July 17, 2007 8:05 pm

    As I read your article about 10 ways to know your over your ex ..I realized or more so re-realized that I should not of gotten into a relationship with my most recent ex. He was not over his ex yet..he didn’t have time to heal. We started this whirlwind romance and now I’m beginning to realize a lot of it was never real b/c he was never able to fully open up to me because he still had not healed from his past relationship. I knew I shouldn’t have gotten involved with him but I thought..maybe if we take it slow. Well it didn’t go slow..and I almost feel he wanted me to replace her in a way just leave off where they had left off..fast forward..he was talking about marriage in a month and gave me a ring for christmas..and a month later it was falling apart already. He needed time to heal..grow…all the excuses he gave me. I gave up after 2 months and didn’t think we were going to get back together and then he walks in my life again. But it was never just right and now 6 months later he tells me that i don’t know who he is and he’s never let his “armor” down with me. I think the main reason is the ex issue and I have definitely learned from this experience. Thank you.

    • Linda permalink
      May 19, 2011 4:31 pm

      I’m sorry but it was never about the ex. You were involved with a narcissist it sounds like. Those guys are incapable of loving anyone. The whirlwind romance and how fast things were proceeding, talking marriage etc. everything you mentioned are all major red flags. Your relationship was doomed from the start. Your narc was being truthful with you. You didn’t know the real him. He was putting up what is known as “false self”…a mask to hide the monster within (a very cold and cruel fellow that gets off confusing women and causing them pain). Intimacy would have been impossible. Run from this guy and never trust him!

      • jaidyn03 permalink
        July 14, 2012 5:23 pm

        Linda, are you serious!!! You obviously have deep psychological trust issues that you need to deal with if that is the conclusion drawn from Julie’s story.
        Now I am not making excuses or this man, but what he did was completely normal and understandable. I’m not saying it was right or that I agree with it. Although it is a common human coping mechanism. Just as Julie described; he wanted to pick up where e and his ex left off.
        Many people do this, I know people that do this! This does not make them narcissists, this makes them human. They are lovely people in which I would entrust with my life. Many people that engage in this behavior and timid and want to please everyone. They are changed by the breakup and begin to want to please themselves and want to go back tot he way things were. They can not help it, everyone feels the same way after being dumped of there are real feelings involved. Of you have ever been dumped you will understand what I am saying. You would want them back, and you would want your life to he how it was with them. They would have made you feel special, important, loved! You wanted those feelings and that attention back. The difference is; these people that you are labeling narcissists are just the people that choose. Instead of self loathing ect. They act upon it trying to replace the one they lost. Sometimes with one, sometimes with many. It all depends on the person, their nature and the relationship theat they are coming out of at the time.
        I presume that you have encountered a narcissist either been the victim of one or ave witnessed one. Or maybe you are the victim of someone that fits the description above. Either way you are now bias and see remotely similar symptoms of narcissism and automatically jump to the conclusion that they are narcissists.
        I hope for your sake that you can resolve these issues in the near future.

    • Linda permalink
      May 19, 2011 4:35 pm

      I’m sorry but it was never about the ex. You were involved with a narcissist it sounds like. Those guys are incapable of loving anyone. The whirlwind romance and how fast things were proceeding, talking marriage etc. everything you mentioned are all major red flags. Your relationship was doomed from the start. Your narc was being truthful with you. You didn’t know the real him. He was putting up what is known as “false self”…a mask to hide the monster within (a very cold and cruel fellow that gets off confusing women and causing them pain). Intimacy would have been impossible. Run from this guy and never trust him! A Whirlwind romance is a sign of shallow emotions. He can detach as easily as he can attach You are well-rid of him.

      • Amanda permalink
        February 13, 2012 9:49 pm

        I had to learn this the hard way. Well said Linda. I had no idea these were red flags of a narcissist; I just thought I could control the pace but ultimately this just blew up into a huge power struggle in which I lost a lot of self-esteem. No amount of attention I could give this guy was enough and I started to feel guilty for my own interests and needs. Run!!!

      • caren permalink
        September 20, 2012 3:13 pm

        I agree linda I agree i dated one and he always blamed me for everything so many red flags always wanted to move ahead too fast then it became nuts happy im gonr from that narc!!! in 6 weeks he said i tore his heart in to pieces how the hell did i do that we fought all the time blames me now and
        then u cant win with a narc!!thx linda for writing that!!!

    • Penny permalink
      May 27, 2012 10:29 am

      I dont know how but I have the exact same ditto story as your’s, julie..even i got a ring at christmas. but he didnt talk about marriage though … he knew i repell such ideas.. love u linda thanx a lot u’re like an angel to me…

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  2. July 18, 2007 7:56 am

    Julie,
    Thank you for sharing your story. I hope YOU are taking care of yourself and taking the time to heal yourself. Good luck with everything!

  3. July 20, 2007 3:50 pm

    same as girly girl to you.. Great tips, I will be sure to use them in the following weeks

    • Anonymous permalink
      August 18, 2012 10:07 am

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  4. July 25, 2007 3:43 am

    I have never looked at this from that point of view, thanks for that. And I like the video, it’s touching.

  5. Mira permalink
    August 7, 2007 12:51 pm

    Yo gal, am glad i got to read this! My ex jst called off our relatoinship a month ago and since then i was never the same… I cried every single day for two whole weeks and beat myself or worked myself up wondering what i could have done to make him change his mind..read his horoscope, still called him..

    Am just letting go..i nolnger have this urge to hear his voice,to see him..my heart doesn’t beat any more when i see him..don’t read his horoscope no more.. My favourite Rock music aint sad anymore..
    Guess am moving on! Kinda have a thing for a friend of his now but like you said..am not gonna get into anything atleast for a year!
    Thank you!

  6. August 7, 2007 8:39 pm

    Mira,
    Thanks for sharing. Remember, everyone is different, and that includes how long you’re going to take to “find” yourself before getting into a new relationship. I’ve had friends who took one month to themselves as well as friends who took six or seven months. Only you will know when you’re ready to start dating again. Good luck in your new adventures whenever they may be!

    • Anonymous permalink
      August 18, 2012 10:10 am

      I was very skeptical about using a love spell or any spell for that matter but I was absolutely shocked when my ex called me after I had prophetharry@ymail.com cast my “return my lover” spell for me. It wasn’t 24 hours that I had my spell cast that he came back to me (practically on his knees). He broke up with me over a month ago and now we are happier than ever. DorothyRodriquez, New York

  7. Chalie permalink
    August 27, 2008 7:45 pm

    Thank you for sharing, but I didn’t quite get how this ties in to law or the YLD. Don’t read horoscopes!!!!!!!!!! They create false hopes and false fears.

  8. XRumerTest permalink
    October 3, 2008 11:49 pm

    Hello. And Bye.

  9. scarlet naranjo permalink
    May 22, 2009 9:06 pm

    I do like this artcle it sets a point that you know when your over your sex thanks!!

  10. scarlet naranjo permalink
    May 22, 2009 9:07 pm

    I meant over your ex thanks!!

  11. September 28, 2009 5:22 am

    I’m currently getting over someone, and I thought about dating, but I stopped myself quick. I agree the best way to deal with a break up, is to take time for yourself. It isn’t easy but it’s the right road….that doesn’t mean I can’t have fun though, and fun is exactly when the Dr. ordered.
    Cheers!

  12. November 3, 2009 11:23 am

    I really like this article too, though I ticked off most of them which is awesome. Big step for me.

    And I’ve also gone the approach of not dating straight away because to me that’s just putting crap on other people who don’t need it.

    I went straight to God actually and into counselling…he did fk me up pretty bad (my mind)

    And you are totally right, take time for yourself – I’ve been single for a year and still have times where I think about it, but not think about it EVERY second of everyday. The ones that drive you NUTS.

    Thanks you so much

    • Nwosu Ngozi A permalink
      May 27, 2012 5:17 am

      Am happy to have read this your article. I have had. A very serious date which I gave up all my heart for, hoping he was the best for me. And suddenly his attitude towards me changed, womanizing and all of that. He called off the relationship. Am already getting over him but each time he sees anyone around me he get angry. Now someone else is showing interest in marring me but my ex still calls me for us to reconcile. What do I do?

  13. Anne permalink
    November 5, 2009 12:46 am

    My boyfriend, Jose, and I broke up two weeks ago. I rushed into the relationship with him even before I’d ended a previous relationship. Big mistake! I stayed with Jose for a year and a half, to be honest, simply because I was afraid to be alone. I had never been a single adult, and it scared the daylights out of me. I had no clue who I was, and even though Jose treated me like sh**, I stayed. I stayed because I couldn’t bear the thought of being alone.

    This has been the biggest mistake of my life. I’m young, but I feel older than my years. It’s easy being alone now, after being in such a horrible relationship. I’ve thought about dating different guys, but I stop myself. I know that the best thing for me to do is to figure out who I am, and what I want out of life. I’m thankful, in a way, for the relationship that I had with Jose. It’s given me the chance to take care of me and only me.

    Thanks for your article. It reaffirms that I’m doing the right thing.

  14. michelle permalink
    November 20, 2009 11:18 pm

    Ive been split from my ex for 2years now and i still have bad feelings towards him , he left me at my worst and that said alot about his true self .Ive havent really seen him in the lat 2years but the last month i seem to be bumping into most days and when i see him i panic and run to hide , today i saw him with his new girlfriend i didnt feel jealous i just felt sad because ive wasted so much time on him .I ran into other realtionships after we split and it made me worse , so please girls avoid doing this !!!
    love the blog and good luck in getting over all our exs ..forget them because they’ have forgot us !!!

  15. Hmmm.... permalink
    December 1, 2009 2:10 am

    Hmmmm…. Michelle, it doesn’t sound like you’re over your ex just yet! :)

  16. stupid permalink
    December 22, 2009 5:21 pm

    pathetic you stupid knob dnt u hve a life?

  17. Inspired permalink
    January 5, 2010 10:25 pm

    Thanks for this post… I split with my ex of 2 years a year ago and he started seeing someone literally the day we split (!) I didn’t jump into any form of relationship, but I still wasn’t over him… after 7 months when he was no longer seeing this girl we started speaking again, and things got sexual. This went on for a few months, and he wanted us to be properly in a relationship once more. I felt – though it seems harsh to say this – done with him. I had grown up and moved on with myself as a person, and learned from it. I didn’t feel bitter anymore about his jumping straight to another girl (which I initially had) but just have no desire for him.
    I felt extremely liberated to know that I was the one who was over him enough to simply and honestly say that I didn’t want anything to do with him anymore in that way, but he hasn’t healed. Thus proving the moral of this post to be true….

  18. January 13, 2010 1:07 am

    God I hate the fact that we broke up a year ago, he moved away six months ago, and I am still not over him. And I’ve tried really hard! Argh. It’s a race now to get over him before I see him with someone else, which will be fine when I am healed, decidedly not fine if it happens in the next few weeks…

  19. Katie permalink
    February 15, 2010 2:20 pm

    My Ex boyfriend of over two years was initially a rebound relationship. I was with the first boy for a year,then we split up & i literally jumped in to a new relationship with my most recent ex. To be honest,it was the best thing i ever done, it took me time to adjust to ‘us’ but i fell in love with him and despite the fact our relationship had a few bumps along the way i don’t regret it. He made me so happy. It now saddens me that literally days later he jumped into a new relationship with a younger girl (who he was apparantly cheating on me with before our split), changed his appearance,and personality. He even had the cheek to make a Facebook(after saying he hated the site) and post pictures of him and his new girlfriend,and declare his love for her-knowing fine well i could see this. It makes me feel like i never knew him at all, and despite promising we would remain friends,we haven’t. I’m too disgusted at his actions and as much as this pains me i don’t want to see him again. I’m only 18 but i’ve learned a few adult life lessons and despite ‘seeing’ another boy & going on a few dates, I agree with this advice & think it’s best to take time for yourself and heal your wounds and get to know yourself again as you will have changed during your relationship. This is the first time I have really ever been alone,and despite the fact it’s hard I think im a better person for it, and I know In time i will get over it. It’s good to remember though, what goes around comes around.

  20. Amy permalink
    February 15, 2010 8:06 pm

    Katie, words of wisdom, especially from someone who’s only 18. What you said is so true….

  21. Krissy permalink
    March 9, 2010 5:19 pm

    I’m deffeinately heeding what your saying, I’m going through rough times, me and my ex faught worse then cats and dogs, it was crazy, she movede out, but the thing was she was my best friend, because we talked about everything but it wasn’t a healthy relationship, I’m with someone new, I didn’t know if I’m repeating the same pattern, she’;s nice kind , sweet, but distant at times swome moments of confusion happen, will admit, but I really like the new gf…. I really want to have a good realtionship, she has said the same thing. IU liwsten often to the song ” better in time” by leona lewis. its been over a month but the realtionship I had was going down hill for quite a while. we both agree its hard, but in my mind its the best thing to do, we are not compatable me vand my ex, we are too different, both dominant. life goes on.

  22. March 9, 2010 8:53 pm

    Thanks for sharing, Krissy. Good luck with everything. And I love that song by Leona Lewis.

  23. March 22, 2010 7:21 am

    I agree with your post never rush into a nother relationship after you break up with some one, a person does need time to heal from the old relatonship before they start something new. good sound advice thanks for the great post

  24. Annabelle permalink
    March 29, 2010 8:56 pm

    Hello. I love this post because now I clearly see that both me and my bf (I still don’t feel calling him as an ex) are still not over each other yet even after two years since we broke up. The reason for us to end our relationship was to give each other time for ourselves. He was quick to replace me though with a new girl soon after we split. He was parading around the new girl like there’s no tomorrow. I was devastated and brought myself far away from him. But their relationship didn’t last. Little I knew it was actually a rebound. They broke up just around the time of festive season. Then, with a good look like that, he’s again quick to find another girl to replace the emptiness. He’s dating one of my friends. I just found out about it through a mutual friend. Again, he’s showing off his new girl like there’s no tomorrow. This time, I’m not bothered by his tactics. I always have a feeling that he will come back to me. I know he always checks my online social networking accounts, always seek for my appearences on our friends account, always asks people how I’m doing and stuff. I know we both still have a very deep feeling for each other but put ourselves in denial. He’s obviously torturing himself so hard to remain in denial rather than to confess his love. I want to start a move for us to reconcile but he’s always attached to a girl and I’m not the type who invades other’s relationship. I’m proud of myself for never involved in a rebound eventhough I hurt to bits. Usually, I get over my exes pretty fast once I had a closure. But with him, I don’t want a closure. I want to resume. I’m praying everyday that we’ll reunite again as I strongly feel our love never fades no matter how hard we both try. We are both doomed once we parted away but try hard to deny it. And I don’t know how to get us together again other than praying to God.

  25. shawn permalink
    May 4, 2010 1:29 pm

    i know the feelin of bein alone and truthfully i dnt like it. sceretly i still think about ma ex and sometimes i do miss her, but if things really dont work out and oyu or her isn’t really tryin to work things out always fightin then maybe its better to let him/her go and let them see everything they didnt see cus its your side her side and there is da truth.

  26. amerie permalink
    May 26, 2010 10:00 pm

    How about when the thought of sleeping with your ex repulsive…..hahah

  27. leevay permalink
    June 29, 2010 1:24 pm

    True

  28. leevay permalink
    July 1, 2010 7:07 am

    Thank you soo much reading this really gett my mind off my ex

  29. July 4, 2010 6:27 pm

    I quite agree that dating soon after a split is the worst thing that you can do. You’ve got your emotions running riot and are in no fit state to make any significant decisions. Whilst activities that help keep your mind occupied and away from your ex is a great move, adding the emotion of rebound romance is not.

  30. Valentina permalink
    July 16, 2010 12:12 am

    I broke up with my ex over two months ago. It was a bit of a whirlwind romance, it felt more like a love affair than a relationship. We were boyfriend and girlfriend but there were always trust issues, I knew he was being unfaithful to me. In a weird way I think he did love me, but only in the way he knew how, he was never going to change for me. We’re neighbors and I’m working abroad it was really hard the first month of the breakup, I felt uneasy, there was a lot of pain, and isolation. I leaned on him in the relationship because I don’t speak the language. I had to sort of find my way alone, it was terrifying, I was angry and betrayed, I didn’t know how I was going to make it through. The fog gradually cleared, I’m not perfect someday but I don’t long for him, there are days I fall back into resentment, but it’s clearing up. I’m sort of dating, but I am just taking time for me. I have 8 months in this country so I have to make the best of it , and everything does happen for a reason….

  31. August 26, 2010 8:55 pm

    Its been a couple of months. Now its just the little things here and there that remind my over my ex boyfriend. I dont hang out at the place I used to anymore, I unfriended him on facebook and fortunately we didnt have too many mutual friends.

  32. daisy permalink
    August 29, 2010 5:58 pm

    My boyfriend broke up with me around a month ago and I was crying nonstop the first week. I felt so sad and missed all the good times we had. I even though maybe I wasn’t good enough, but that was not the reason. I deserved better. He wasn’t what I wanted, but I settled because I was naive and young. He started a new relationship right after we broke up or even before that, I don’t know, but the new girl wasn’t a rebound. I guess he just lost interest in me and started liking that new girl who is currently his girlfriend. I told myself that I was over him, that he didn’t matter, that I deserved better, and that he was not the one for me. I know that he wasn’t the one for me, but when I see pictures of him and his new girlfriend I feel angry or sad or hurt, I don’t even know. I guess I need more time to get over him but it’s so hard… Well this blog was helpful, I take time for myself and eventually I will have all 10 signs of being over my ex checked off. Thanks!

  33. Carrie permalink
    September 7, 2010 11:17 pm

    Girlygirl34 what a great article. Truly a checklist to live by if you break up, get divorced, or sadly, widowed. I too have gone through a divorce. The catcher is this is my second. The first was alot easier. Basically I really didn’t love him anymore. He was abusive verbally and physically. I had a baby with him who I didn’t want him growing up seeing his father abuse his mother and possibly being abused himself. The abuse wasn’t right away, grew from very small things into finally an incident that made me say, it’s time. I knew God didn’t put me on this earth to be abused by this man. I put myself there, so it was time
    to take myself and my precious baby out of there. I lived in a very comfortable situation, which was hard to leave but it didn’t matter anymore. So with $50, my clothes , and the baby I left. That baby is now 20 yrs. old. It was hard just cause I had to leave my baby and go to work but it was worth it. Thank God my mom watched my son, so I could relax. It was 10 yrs before I got into another serious relationship. Took what felt like eternity to finally meet someone. Got involved he told me that he didn’t want to get involved with anyone with kids really…so I started to excuse myself and was stopped. Lesson girls, keep walking!!!! Vitally important….huge red flag…really what was he gonna say to change how he felt? So I kept going with the relationship which lasted for 7 years. Lots of ups and downs and many red flags. Married him. It was fine at times but his general uncomfortable attitude only told me once again, our time together was limited. Narcissistic all the way. Those are the most scary people to be involved with….they truly have a way of messing with your mind and heart to a degree that should be considered criminal. I was given a an ultimatum….it was him or my son. Anyone who is a mom is going to protect her children (with the exception if your kid is truly evil or dangerous). So once again finding myself single at 47 yrs. old. If I can say anything to help others is that “be real” in your assessment of who they are….looks fade, heart and mind especially patterns don’t. Having babies DOESN’T fix anything ever. You are stronger than you think! Being single isn’t so bad just a temporary spot, it can always change at the blink of an eye. It’s so true…the one rule that rings true for me…is if you can picture your ex having sex with someone else and it doesn’t bother you, CONGRATULATIONS!!! You are home free! Love to all!

  34. September 10, 2010 6:46 am

    Carrie, wow. Seems like you’ve gone through so much. You are absolutely right: you are even stronger than you think. Congrats on having the courage to walk out of an abusive relationship and then to say bye-bye to a man who wants you to choose between him and your son.

  35. September 22, 2010 4:46 pm

    This is a great post. After break up it is a very confusing moment. You dont know what your ex is thinking about and the best thing is to give yourself time. Although people are different get something to occupy you up because the more idle you will be the more you will try to fill the emptyness.

    Thanks for this post and sharing it with us

  36. October 7, 2010 5:54 am

    Starting from the advice I got from experts, I was able to decide that I should really get back together with my ex because I know that there’s still a chance to save our relationship. After taking up my courage, I told him to reconsider and gradually, our relationship was renewed its strength.

  37. WhiteCat permalink
    October 23, 2010 5:48 pm

    Thank you so much for this tip. It’s strange that I have gone through these steps correctly without actually knowing the reason why I did that. I think it was just my instinct that told me to be mentally healthy first before continuing with new set of mind and soul activities. Just like you have to fully recover from physical sickness and become healthy first before you can do tasks in life with your body.

  38. content permalink
    October 26, 2010 6:29 am

    Daisy your experience and mine are one in the same :( my ex and I broke up about 3 years ago, we didn’t date long, but man he has this charm about him that even when i see him today it just sort of gets to you. he’s still with his girlfriend who he started dating even when we still had a thing going on.. he said he “sidetracked,” & called me a few times while still with her to tell me he misses me.. i guess i was just weak but a part of me loved hearing that. well i stayed single for a good year after we broke up, just working on myself and met a wonderful man later on that i’m so thankful to have. sometimes i still catch myself thinking about my ex, maybe just wondering why i wasn’t good enough, and what would have happened if he hadn’t sidetracked.. funny ting is i got to know his girlfriend really well cuz we happened to coincidentally volunteer at the same place together and i found out we’re so so much alike.. so its hard to not wonder.. why couldn’t it have been me. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, and we’ve been together for a solid 2 years and i’m so thankful :) .. but the hurt still remains towards my ex… is this normal?

  39. goldenella permalink
    November 15, 2010 10:39 am

    me and my ex broke up officially 6 mnths ago. we were together originally 7 mnths but then on n off making it up to 2 years officially calling it off 6 mnths ago all the other tyms we broke up i never had tym to get over it he wud always getin contact again and would never let me move on totally and i didnt no how to. i tried dating and just couldnt and then we got back together one last tym but he had started seeing sum1 inbetween and then broke up with me saying he liked her. i was so hurt. its been 6 months they have been together we did talk once around 3 months ago wen he called me i asked him about his gf and he just said he didnt love her and he didnt want it to last as he was going into the army and i asked him if he loved me and he just said what is love but that he can never get over me and does miss me and he would never be the way is he is about me with her . since then we havnt spoke but ive heard recently through friends that she cheated on him and hes been cheating on her. ino he never cheated on me. and on facebook the other day he liked something that i had wrote on a mutual friends comment it was soo wierd havnt spoke to him for so long friends said not to read into it but i cant help but think that he knew it would come on my page and wondered what he was doing. i still think of him everyday and miss him . altho this time ive had 6 months to mmyself i took a stop on dating and have had a lot of time to focus on me and moving forward and i feel so much stronger now i still wonder if he will ever come back again as he has said so many times before when we broke up its over 4 eva and we would get back but this time he got a gf so i kinda thought he wouldnt but part of me still wonders although ino i couldnt take him back as hes been with sumone else and it would never be the same. i ticked alot of the survey but ino im still not totally over it but ino that im nearly there. what do you think? xx

  40. Glendi permalink
    November 17, 2010 2:16 am

    I had a boyfriend which was really different from others. He was like a model. I fell for him like any other girl. However, he played me a lot. I used to always take his shit. It would always be a fight now and later a make up. I still wonder how stupid i was. I would forget about everything after a kiss. One day he deny me right in my face. We broke up that day. Then I started talking to this other guy which was more my type. Next thing i know he asks me out i said yes. I got wit him not being over my ex. When i realize this i gave myself sometime. In that time i was missing my new boyfriend and told myself my ex is a jerk!! I ended up staying with my new ex and he made me forget about my ex. He made me happy. But now my ex is back saying he loves me etc. I love my new boyfriend but Im what my ex did to me still hurts. Everytime i see him i want to tell him off ! Do you think im over my ex ??

  41. November 22, 2010 2:06 am

    Wow, going through a breakup sucks, and it’s so hard to know what to do. You know that if you do the wrong thing, or don’t do anything at all, it will be pretty much impossible to get back with your ex. But what should you do? What are the right steps to take? Here are some proven get your lover back tips advice how get your ex back that have worked for thousands

  42. November 23, 2010 10:20 pm

    Hi
    I think that the 10 points in your article are not to far from the truth. I dont think that your really ever over your ex but there is a certain emotional detachment that makes you care less and less for them.
    Pity i didnt realise this a few years ago, that would have saved me all that time moping around before i caught myself on.

  43. November 23, 2010 10:30 pm

    Break up really sucks and i feel back for anyone going through it. Hopefully i wont have to gp throught it again. No body really wins in the break up but at the time your trying to win. Putting on a brave face and acting like your not bothered. I think the only real healer is time and lots of space from your ex partner.

  44. boistress.ish permalink
    February 5, 2011 9:59 pm

    Had to laugh since I experienced all 10 after my awful b/u. Whether u think ur ex rebounded, believe they’re a skank and a jerk, or unfaithful and nonmonogomous, empirical knowledge finds those exes will live the remainder of their lives w little guilt post-breakup because they simply move on. DO NOT feign for the “I’m so confused” or “I still love you” statements–it’s for sex relief or bcuz the new person is pressuring them to stay put. Steer clear of ur ex. As they did, live on AND as if they won’t matter in ur life anymore. U will gain strength in time, w the support of people who care, and keeping busy.

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  46. Lou permalink
    February 17, 2011 10:09 am

    Me and My ex from two years ago have the saddest love story… If anyone has read ‘Snow Falling on Cedars’ by David Guterson. That is our story… We fell in love at a young age, and he was always there. We finally got together after knowing (and liking) each other for 2 years. But because of our young age and racial difference, i was forced by my parents to break up through a letter. I came back and saw him for the first time after being away for 2 months, and everything just came rushing back. We tried to be friends at first, but it didn’t work because we were not over each other. We had to end things and not be friends. I have not talked to him for two years and the sad thing is that i almost see him every day. I don’t know how it has come to this, because we are going out of our way to avoid each other. I know that inside, we are afraid of something. Maybe we’re afraid of falling in love again, because we know that it will never work. I have been with a new guy for almost one and a half years now. I loved him for who he was in the beginning, but i don’t know why… I sometimes still think of my ex and am really wistful. I accept the fact that we can’t be together, but i sometimes fantasize him apologizing and explaining that he never got over me. I feel as though he is hiding a lot, and i would be so happy to know what he’s been thinking throughout these two years. I’m now really afraid that my current bf is a rebound guy, but i never really thought of him in that way until i read this article. When i fell in love with him, i was at my lowest point after the break up and this guy made me feel happy, after all the unhappiness. I actually love him sooo much now. Maybe i rushed in, but that does not mean that he isn’t my ray of sunshine in the darkest hour.

    • JTX permalink
      July 1, 2011 11:04 pm

      what the hell are you yammering on about? First – its not a sad love story…. Its about a guy trying to stay away from you because you have racist parents, a relationship, and most likely – nothing to say to you.

      Get over it. Guys are not complex creatures. We dont long in silence, patiently passing you each day despretly waiting for one of us, you or I, to drum up enough courage to walk by the other so we can share that “forever” visual embrace that bears one another’s souls. Sorry. This isnt “sex in the city’ or a jewerly commercial.

      If he does happen to think of you… its definately not like how you imagine. He doesnt care what motives are behind the little look you just passed him. no. hes wondering if he could get away with it. If the situation presented it self, could he get in those pants, get em off, and get in your hatchback deep enough to blow the doors off – All within a short period of time, a day or so, that way it doesnt impact his normal schedule too much and no one becomes suspicious.
      But even that passes, because later that day he goes home, the thought of you still in his head, he opens up his computer and there it is- The pictures that you sent him….yep…..Those. I know….he told you he deleted them. Hell, he may have deleted them infront of you, you may have checked his computer, he may not even have the same computer, phone, or cell phone company anymore. But he still has those pics…..and in 15 minutes from this momment, he wont be thinkin of you anymore.
      Come to think about it, a grilled cheese does sound good right now….

      You are not that special.

      • Toxic Avenger permalink
        September 16, 2011 6:27 pm

        “Guys are not complex creatures.” Speak for yourself. What the hell are you rambling on about? Obviously, you’re some sort of troll.

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  48. ashley permalink
    April 1, 2011 1:30 pm

    how i get my ex gf if shes dating someone else then we are living together.. the hurt side, she’s sleep with him almost every night and she will come back in our apartment for her things then go back to this guy.. it hurts me so bad since i feel ive move on when i didnt see her but if she comes back her in apartment, my feelings towards her will come back again and i ll show her that im desperate coz i miss her and i try to convince her to get back.. i cant control myself because i love her so much..it almost 2 months since we broke up..please give me advice..

  49. May 15, 2011 6:06 pm

    i broke up with my gal last month but she still comes to my mind when i listen “preety women”.

  50. June 9, 2011 11:19 am

    I got out of a 7 year relationship not to long ago. I m not seeing anyone else and don’t plan on it for awhile. I am just spending my time working, hanging with friends and family. Fishing, going on couple vacations, working out… etc…… But even with my active lifestyle and great people around me it seems like I will NEVER get over my ex. Im 30 years old and he was the only person I have ever loved. I hope I can do this. And good luck to everyone else.

  51. Brandi88 permalink
    June 12, 2011 9:55 pm

    The Horoscope thing got me, lol. But okay. My son dad and I have been together for 10yrs. The both of us are 22, but we’re no longer together. See, I already knew these steps, but it sounds good to hear it from another female. But this is my new found problem. He has a child by someone else. They are together. But at the same time he can’t seem to let me be! He always want to “do the do”. Or call to see where I am, what am I doing. At first I thought he was confused about what he wanted. But now it’s downright annoying. I felt low, and kind of like I was degrading myself. The last time we… Was in March. And now he’s come back around! I told him no. You have a woman. And I do not need the stress. You know, having to bring myself back up. But he just won’t give in!!!

  52. David permalink
    August 18, 2011 5:39 am

    Wow, the more I read, the more i realize I might not be over her like I thought I was. D: Im just trying to forget her! I dont think I can even look at pictures or songs i used to listen with her. Any help would be nice. @_@

  53. David permalink
    August 18, 2011 5:42 am

    ^btw, it’s been about 9 months and I just recently left high school. Im going to college in 2 days and people have told me you’ll definately feel better in college after meeting other people. I really hope so… I dont want to remember anything back then with her. :[ best to move on right? Once again, I wouldnt mind advice. ^ ^ thanks so much for reading…

    • Darkfixxx permalink
      August 31, 2011 3:13 am

      Hello David,
      I probably won’t be checking this site again because I’m so busy with everything in my life. Anyway, you will have times when certain events or songs come on the radio and you will think of your ex. I was with someone for almost 1.5 years. I called her my Candy Girl. You will hurt for a while, but the mind slowly gets over things. You will picture her in your head and wonder what she is up to, and that’s normal. There is not one day passes where I think of my ex. Her and I became so different and things weren’t going to work out in the long run. I didn’t want to break up with her, but had no choice. Keep enduring the pain. The longer you endure it, the stronger you will become.
      Best wishes,
      -Dave

      • Darkfixxx permalink
        August 31, 2011 3:15 am

        Oops forgot don’t in there

  54. Annie permalink
    September 1, 2011 2:45 am

    about 2 years ago, my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me. For about 15 minutes I was fine and figured that maybe i didn’t love him as much as I thought I did. But later, I broke down and cried. I was heartbroken and I was so fake around him. I would smile and ask how he was doing and it seemed like he was the one that always freaked out and walked away. He moved away about a year ago and I fell in love with another guy because I was about 100% sure that I was completely over my ex. But now he’s back and I ran into him last week and my heart skipped about a billion beats and I turned bright red and I started fidgeting. It was horrible. I said hi and we talked and now he seems over everything and apparently has also moved on. He’s got a girlfriend and they’ve been together for about a year. But now I don’t know what to do because I love my current boyfriend but I just know that the love I have for him isn’t like what I used to have for my ex. I know that because my ex can still make my heart skip even though I have no real emotions toward him. This is too hard.

    • Mary Lou permalink
      September 4, 2012 9:53 pm

      I know what you’re going through, I totally agree with your last 4 sentences.
      You’ll always remember that unique love you’ve had with your ex. And it is so hard but sometimes we just have to move on.
      I’m struggling with the same so I can’t give you any advice..
      I wish you all the best !

      xxx

  55. Tony 65 permalink
    September 2, 2011 11:35 am

    Hi Im a 45 year old male, am I ok to post here ? Im not sure I entirely agree or disagree with dating on the rebound.
    I would of agreed that one time dating on the rebound didnt work, but a couple of years ago I was dumped quite unceramoniousley for the second time by a woman who was several years older than me to go back to her ex, the first time was in 2007 then again in june 2009, I was hurt both times , but the second time was a bit different, I was more angry with myself than her , because I caught her with her ex and did nothing about it, I loved her very much.
    When I first dated her in 2007, she lived several doors down from me, then she dumped me, the a year later she moved away, the second time she dated me 2009, she was still living away,10 days after she dumped me, I met someone , she’s 16 years younger than me , very good looking , great figure and a personality to match, but I thought this is never going to work, Im angry with myself , my ex , im hurt etc….then thought what the hell am I doing , why give my ex space in my head again till “I get over her” ?
    From then I made a concious decision not to dwell on it, or try not too.
    My ex moved back to my street in may 2010 , but this time rents a place 5 doors down from me,she wouldnt look at me at first, but eventually stated to try to become friends again . I speak to her , but keep it short. I dont particulary want anything to do with her at all, but im civil with her.
    Ive been with my girlfriend now over 2 years , although I see my ex on a daily basis. there is nothing I want from her anymore , why she movedb back here I really dont know, I would never give her time of day again , her being friendly too me just makes me want to tell her to do one.
    I was in the travel shop a couple of weeks ago, my ex came in and made out she was talking too someone about a holiday, I made out I didnt see her, she eventually got my attention by switching the lights on and off in the shop then asking me where I was going ?!! I told her I didnt know.
    A relationship will work , it depends if you want it too. My girlfriend is the best girlfriend Ive had since I split with my ex wife 11 years ago, I would never entertain any of my exs again, even my ex who I see practically on a daily basis, seeing her regulary enforces that point home even more.

  56. mishaps permalink
    September 3, 2011 8:42 pm

    Hi, i just read this its good.. I will tell my story.

    I broke up with my ex in April we have already broken up last july but got back together in september. I just found out she is seeing someone new and it got to me. How i found out was i had a hunch becuase she changed the way she text me and the mannerism in her texts so then i just asked outright. My friend also knew about this and didnt tell me. We broke up because, well the reason I gave her was family and I couldn’t marry her. Real reason was with me, I was drained, I couldnt do it anymore. She moved in with me before we broke up last year and had been living with me for about a year and a half. When we broke up last year she moved out. She moved back in with me unwillingly on my part in march because her parents were moving somewhere and she could afford a place. She paid me nothing. Oh she is 26 i am 25. I got drained. I did everything cooked cleaned etc paid for her to come on holiday and even after we broke up she didnt move out until august becausei kind of made her. It seemed like she was a burden. She was a differnet person to the one i fell in love with. Her attiude changed, the was she spoke, the swore so much in general conversation, the way she dressed, the people she hung out with i didnt like, te way she looked. I no longer felt physically attracted to her. Her personality changed, there were flashes of her old self and that kept hope in me alive that she could go back. But it eventually wore me down.

    So i just found out she is going out with another girl after she told me this a few weeks ago, i need to be single for a year, i cant date another girl after you, they wont compare. She hasnt been single for over two months since the age of 16. Since we broke up she has slept with five guys gone out with two, now a girl.

    This has reallygot to me because she still calls me her best friend. She said shetold this new girl about me and it was cool. This girl is 21. I still care about her, but i know i cant be with her as she is now we dont go together. But it doesnt stop the fact that this has really got to me. I think she needs to be alone to find herself and know what she wants from life, but she told me i was being childish. Did i mention that this is all going on while i am on holiday?

    • Tony 65 permalink
      September 4, 2011 12:54 am

      Shit I thought life was hard for me with my ex livin down the road , its a breeze compared too you !
      All this on holiday too, I think its best you dont contact her at all, best having mothing to do with her whatsoever , her calling you a friend and relying on you will just stop you moving on .

      • mishaps permalink
        September 4, 2011 7:33 pm

        Actually this is the second holiday that she did this on. When we weren’t together this time last year she did a similar thing. I basically sent an email to her detailing the reasons I actually broke up with her. Because she drained me. All I got was I will come see you when you are back.

        She lives with one of my close friends too and my friend didn’t even give me a heads up about this.

        I hate feelib like this on holiday.

  57. Tony 65 permalink
    September 5, 2011 10:35 am

    I think she’s playing you because she knows you care, I think I would just act nonplussed about her at all and have no contact with her.
    Im friends with none of myexs, Im civil with them if I see them , but thats pretty much it, why be friends with an ex when theres so many other people to be friends with ?
    Let her go and please herself what she does , she sounds manipulative from how you have described her.

    • mishaps permalink
      September 5, 2011 11:39 pm

      I accidentally sent a text meant for someone else to her saying I don’t know what myself is telling me. It was meant for my mate who is helping me out. She text me saying she doesn’t know why I am making a big drama out of this. She went onto say she is cold turkey off her anti depressants because she ran out needs to rub to the doctor. I just said well you are silly then and left it.

      I do care and value her, I know she knows that. It just upsets me that the way she is heading with her life is not what she is capable of and she has so much potential wastes. I know I need to stop let that getting to me.

      I didn’t mean to make her sound manipulative do you mind me asking how you came to that? I know she seems to have taken advantage of me.

      I hate this…

  58. Tony 65 permalink
    September 6, 2011 10:32 am

    Yes you said in your first post , she still calls you her best friend, she knows you care even when she came too stay with you , you wrote she “was a burden”.
    Because she knows you care , she will be parasytical and will use you by telling you , your her friend, thats what I mean by her being manipulative, she can work you to the point she becomes a burden but you still put up .
    Recently I got in touch with an old flame because her daughter was pressuring me to do so ,” my mum needs a friend right now will you ring her ?” her daughter was onto me everytime I was on face book,
    Her mother dumped me and married the guy she ws living with at the time 16 weeks later, but yet still wanted too see me ! That was in 2006.
    She told me then at the time he was abusive , an alcoholic, he was boring and a complete loser, I fell for her .After she dumped me , we met up a couple more times , last time being in 2007, thats it .
    When I rang my ex last week it , she told me her husband was in prison and has been since feb this year(he/s doing 3 years for child abuse- but she,s fighting for his innocence),all she kept droning about was him and how he was framed, she also said it was over between them now and she wants a man but from a distance, virtually the same rubbish she fed me 5 years previous ..To be honest I was bored , I kept answering her saying “right”, eventually she cottoned on and asked me how life was with my girlfriend, I told her I was happy with her , she has no issues we get on great -which we do , I finished the conversation by saying ” I hope you manage to sort things out , see you ”
    I told my girlfriend that Id rung her,she was fine about but said , “you should of told her daughter theres no point in getting in touch and that her mother has plenty of friends , she’l be fine…” she,s right.
    5 years down the line and now I acted like a friend.
    I shouldnt beat myself up about it, like you dont find your ex physically attractive anymore , I dont my ex ,I dont want her back (Ive loved and lost since) but in a way I was still there, not on any scale like you and your ex, but still an intrusion again to a degree.
    Your ex, I dont think knows where she is and could do with proffesional help, I dont think you should burden yourself with her, you dont want her in a sexual capacity and the “friendship” that you have is transparent to someone reading what you have wrote, it seems very one way.
    I would think if she has had other lovers , then she will have other friends, dont become her doormat , you are not benefitting anything from it at all.
    Just out of interest , are you doing this out of any guilt trip ? I dont know who you are so were completely anon here, if you had abused her or whatever , then thats another story, but it also doesnt mean you have too put out whatever the past is, is past.

    • mishaps permalink
      September 6, 2011 12:07 pm

      Im glad you are happy with your girlfriend and that talking to your ex went well in a way.

      Gulit trip, well when we argued they were very heated and some did get physical. We both did. During our break last year i did go into therapy to help me and it did. Also i do feel towards the end of us i didnt support her as i needed to. I took her on a skiing holiday in march and was completly distant from her. I broke it off when i got back. I felt bad for acting like that on holiday. I did tell her to get professional help many a time, be it pills or whatever, but she only did it after we broke up.

      She changed a lot, her appearance, her attitude, the way she spoke and used f*** and c*** and so much in general conversation it just got to me and eroded away at the love i had for her i guess. All this change from a job. I wish she was still the 2007/2009 girl that was perfect. I never realised a job could change someone so much.

      I suppose by burden i meant that i did everything around the house while having a full time job. She worked shifts her late shift would start at 12 and finish 9pm but if i asked her to do anything in the morning it would be do i have to?

      She wants to see me when i am back from holiday on thursday to talk.

  59. Tony 65 permalink
    September 7, 2011 11:42 am

    I wouldnt meet to talk, she’l understand then that you probably have had enough , ignore her calls , any advances she makes on you, anything !
    One of you has to make a permanent break fro it, otherwise you,l be coming back to this this time next year.
    Im afraid the 2007/2009 girl you knew has gone, contrary to popular belief , people do change, some for the worse .
    I remember saying to my ex wife in 1999, “I wish we could go back to how we were when we first met “, you cant , thats it. We divorced in 2001, after 10 years of marrriage.
    I think acceptance that something is over is the hardest part, its letting go, theres no point in being friends with exs, Thats why I was pissed off at myself for having rung my ex from 5 yeras ago, I just prefer not to have anything to do with them, unless tou have kids together or your splitting property down the middle, theres no point staying in touch with an ex.
    Weve all become physical at times with an ex partner on occasions ,a lot of people will never admit to it, I know I have, but Im a grandad now and I think Ive mellowed a lot .
    Have nothing to do with her, dont meet her , you call the shots , you dont need her in your life, make her realise that , you’l be glad you did further down the line.

  60. missled permalink
    September 13, 2011 5:58 am

    great post! a lot of food for thought on this one…it took me a while to get over my ex, and i am finally and very proud to say i am over him. now im at that point where i wondered why did that take soooo long? about 9 months…. it was just so hard when we had plans for the future and this i thought at the time, was fact – it was going to happen :get married, travel, the whole shabang. but little did i know all those promises would fall apart, and the relationship deteriorate along with. it took me way too long, and i hope others read this and can comprehend – why be with someone that doesnt want to be w you…i couldnt, but if i had, it would have saved me so much heartbreak…now a little smarter, a little jaded, but definetly am ready to be out there. Cheers! :)

  61. Tony 65 permalink
    September 15, 2011 11:58 pm

    Missled ,Im glad to hear your doing well , you seem to have come out of it on top “a little smarter , a little jaded …” …but you have proved you dont need him , he’l be coming back to you in a few months time , because your not chasing him , he’l need his ego boositng, dont give him time of day , its your call , take care.

  62. pinky permalink
    September 22, 2011 3:49 pm

    I would say about 5 of the points I have acheived so I half way there. Was with my ex for 18 months, he ended it 5 weeks ago. We were both on the rebound from long term relationships, his a 20 year marriage and mine a 12 year relationship. We met very soon after we split with our exes and didn’t give ourselves time to heal but we did help each other through a lot of pain, towards the end of the relationship I realised I loved him and told him this and he decided to end it wanted to be alone as he has never experienced that as been is relationship with his ex since being 16. I can understand what he means but wish It had not taken him 18 month to figure this out. He wants to remain friends and in time I probably will but now I need to heal and get back to my old self.

  63. gina permalink
    October 3, 2011 3:52 am

    I was so heartbroken over this one guy. One day he just told me that things weren’t working out and he broke up with me. I cried all night long. All I wanted was to talk to him, I called over and over again and send tons of text messages. but After i contacted this spell caster divine.lovespell@aol.com i told him my problem and he helped me out,and then i now know why everything I tried to get him back failed.It didn’t take much time to get my ex back!

    • jay permalink
      October 5, 2011 11:16 pm

      Ok seriously you need to get off this blog with that spell caster crap!

  64. maryam permalink
    October 10, 2011 3:57 am

    I started seeing this man about a year and 9 months ago and I don’t know what to say, we clicked instantly. The way we complimented each other, the way our logic made sense to both of us and the way we admired each others habits made me feel like well I think I’ve found the one. And I do honestly believe that.. but the problem is I’m his first girlfriend. He’s 26 now and you’d wonder why in the world he’s having his first relationship at 24, like is there something socially wrong with him? No.. he was perfect, had a close set of friends, was very outgoing and adventurous but I guess he never had the courage to go up to a girl before me.. anywho, we dated until about June of this year and one day out of the blue, we got into an arguement and I told him if he doesn’t want to be with me, I haven’t tied him onto a leash. He’s free to go whenever he’d like, right? (obviously I didn’t mean for him to take it seriously) but I guess it made him start to think and he told me it’s just not logical to get into such an extremely serious relationship with the first gf/bf you have. It broke my heart. I cant blame him because I do understand where he is coming from and I don’t ever want him to look back one day and wish he could have met other girls and had some more experience.. but it just hurts tthat the relationship was GOOD. There was nothing wrong with it. It just couldn’t work out for him cause I was the first. Personally, looking back I don’t think I would have stayed with my first boyfriend.. but that was cause he was a rude lying cheater..

    I just don’t understand.. I mean I do, but my heart doesn’t. I know for sure that he will come back one day.. because I know he’s the one, like my mind is set. But it hurts a lot cause I know he has to go through all of these girls to actually realise. I don’t plan on getting into another relationship because I don’t feel like it’s morally right to commit to something you can’t give your all into. I mean what if the other person really falls for you and you are still extremely inlove iwth your ex. And I just can’t seem to be interested in anyone else either. I tried in the begining to follow what every great friend says “the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else” but as hard as I tried I just couldn’t get myself even a teensy bit interested and sO I gave up cause I don’t want to force myself to do something just cause it’s worked for others but doesn’t feel so right to me.

    I found this blog helpful though because I think I really need to give myself time before I even think about rekindling our love or even maybe letting someone new enter it. I want to be a completely whole person and not look for another half but someone who compliments me and who I am already. I think we should all try to strive to be complete on our own.. It will help if anyone leaves your life, cause you aren’t really losing yourself in that case…

  65. janet permalink
    October 19, 2011 9:10 pm

    “I like to leave this testimonial to share with other’s of the goodness of your spells. My love life was a wreck my man ignored me and we barely spent anytime together he always spend time with his no good friend everyday which my man helped him get a job. I needed help fast and was in no time to play. I ordered the Follow My Love Spell, Soften The Heart Spell, and Obstacle Breaker Spell for our relationship and then had the Return To Sender Spell and Ultimate Break-Up Spell….. I wanted the whammy on that guy and his friend. Within a week my man and his friend been having disagreements and turned against my man, my man started dis-liking his friend and distanted himself from his friend, his friend got fired, and on the 11th day my man has been cooking to me and spend more time with me and he called me 12 times on 2 different days I didn’t mind though, because I miss the attention..AGBALAXY SPELL TEMPLE you are one in a million and next I want to do something else for us to get married.. If you ever want his help,this is his email address: agbalaxy@gmail.com ” Janet.

  66. Ten permalink
    October 28, 2011 2:10 am

    I read all the steps and but I havnt seen my ex or spoken or even seen their facebook since we broke up 6months ago but some songs still unease me and i dont look at pictures and I could go everywhere except their old house which my friend live their and they had move away right after the break up… is this normal? I know ill be happy if no one mention them to me or ever saw them again, I dont get it, how can I not want anything to do with them even if I had a choice but also still miss them? :/ very confusing and its been so long since contact and ive even moved states. im only worried it will hold me back and I dont want that

  67. Monica permalink
    November 14, 2011 9:18 pm

    Fantastic story,im on my way to gttng ova my ex 2..thanx alot

  68. matina moris permalink
    December 1, 2011 4:26 am

    Hello to you all, i just want to say that there is only on spell caster i can guarantee any one, i have used the before about a month ago and the result was excellent. you should meet the spell caster on templeofancientancestors@gmail.com he can also help you.
    Thanks to you all.

    • Tyler Hines permalink
      December 3, 2011 12:59 am

      even for people who “fall in love to fast” like me?

  69. Tyler Hines permalink
    December 3, 2011 12:57 am

    I am at sacramento job corps and i had a boyfriend here. And it felt like he could be the one but he only went out with me for two days. And it was on a day where i wanted to spend time with him but i couldn’t because when we were in the line to get on a recreation trip, he was the last one in line to go and i got stuck here. But i told him to go have fun without me because he also got off probation that day so i let him have some fun. I wanted to go spend time with him to but as soon as he came back, the first thing he asked me when “Can i talk to you?” And i knew he was gonna break up with me because you don’t start off with that question in a good way. It only last two days and i was/still am hurt because a few weeks later he’s going out with my friend and everywhere i go, i see them both together and i keep hurting everytime i see them. I stiil am hurt because thier relationship is still going on and i hate him for doing this to me. I wanted him back but i can’t and he’s hurting me for it. I kept telling him to tell me if i’m doing something wrong, uncomfortable, something he doesn’t like, ect. and he breaks up with me the day after that. I don’t know what the hell i did wrong but he won’t tell me. And it’s hurting/killing me really bad and fast. i don’t know what to do. =’(

  70. rebekka oreilly permalink
    December 4, 2011 8:04 pm

    me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago
    and well lets just say i am a bit obsessesed with him ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I love him so much he is the only guy that i love me so much he cause me beutifull alot and cute and i miss him and i want to move on from him

    • Tyler Hines permalink
      December 6, 2011 12:35 am

      i kinda have a problem though. i get to obssessive way to easily and i’m like stuck in this situation because not only does it hurt to see him everyday, it hurts to see him with someone else and kissing him and everything. i just can’t seem to control my emotions. ya know?

  71. December 6, 2011 8:35 pm

    hei, am sooooo glad i read this article! Broke up wit my bf a month ago en i feel lyk am stil hurtin! Hiz a public figure en its like i see him evrywheree! It sucks en i feel like shit, met this guy hiz great, kips askin mi if we shud go out bt am nt ready, thot id accept to move on bt i cant. Will tek tht advise into consideration.thnx

    • Tyler Hines permalink
      December 7, 2011 4:39 am

      i just realized that i get jealous easily to… wtf???

    • Barbs permalink
      January 5, 2012 1:42 am

      please speak english

  72. hayley permalink
    December 8, 2011 1:46 am

    I split up with my ex a year ago but we’ve still been on and off since the split, after reading this I have realised I am actually over him which is something I once thought was impossible, and I love it! :D

    • Tyler Hines permalink
      December 9, 2011 3:40 am

      i just wanted to feel less alone because most of my friends are in a relationship and i’m not. and i just don’t understand how he could just dump me in two days. it doesn’t seem fair.

  73. joana permalink
    December 14, 2011 2:49 pm

    i jst still hear our song and cry but all the other things are ok :) so i guess am over him :) though i spent the best days of my life with him he still loves me and i love him but our love is impossible so i broke up with him and i found a guy i love him but not as much as i loved my ex :(

  74. Atreybee permalink
    December 16, 2011 6:10 am

    It’s true. everything in the article. Except for the time to heal bit. For me, I broke up with my ex back in October and was ready and willing to be single for a good long while, but fate intervened and I was dating a good friend only a week later. 2 months have gone by and we’re going strong, But I admit I still need some closure with my ex. I haven’t seen him since we broke up and I kind of feel like I need to see him physically, to know he’s okay and fine even after the breakup (he had issues with depression) and finally move on with my life. he currently doesn’t want to see me, so I’m waiting on tenterhooks for him to come around and meet with me so I can get that closure and move forward with my new relationship.

  75. Harmonia permalink
    December 18, 2011 4:04 pm

    My girlfriend left me five months ago for a guy she works with. I am a girl as well. We were each other’s first lesbian relationship. She came from a long-term brother-sister kind of relationship with her first bf. We both fell in love with the person, regardless of gender. She chased me until I capitulated. She adored me, she would have done anything for me. For a year and a half we lived on a secret island on which we both felt safe and cherished. We did stuff together, we went on holiday together, but I kept the relationship secret. Most of her family and friends knew about us, mine did not, and never suspected a thing. Hence, no hugging, kissing, holding hands in public.
    She missed a common life as a couple, she did not see any future perspectives. Eventually, in tears, she dumped me, and immediately ran to her co-worker.
    I realized I was wrong. I realized I am proud of her. I realized I cared too much about what people would think. I realized that the people who love and support me would keep loving and supporting me regardless of whom I love. I told her so. We have met once a month since the split. Civil and coolish, she says she still likes me a lot and wants us to remain friends.
    I kept cool, never pleaded or begged, never even initiated contact. But she could see I lost weight – no wonder since I have hardly eaten for weeks, and my appetite is still not back to normal, while I have been hitting the gym a lot to get my mind off her. So she must know I was affected and still care.
    My head tells me I should move on and forget about her. My head even resents her for making me feel like a pathetic spoiled child wishing for the thing I cannot have anymore. My heart, however, keeps hoping that she will be back, that she is only rebounding, and will drop him as soon as she realizes that he is just a band-aid curing her fear of being lonely. The new guy is 12 yrs older than her (he is 40), a workaholic (funny thing is, they’re keeping the relationship secret at work), emotionally immature and inexperienced. But he was there when she needed more of the attention and devotion that she craves.
    It still hurts to think they are doing the things we used to do together. I miss her, I miss being cuddled, I miss being told that I am the best, I miss her texting me all the time, I miss our chats, I miss whatever it was that we had. They are off on a holiday in a few weeks, while I am here, surfing the internet for ways to get over an ex. Miserable. What do I do?

  76. lover boy floyd permalink
    December 20, 2011 10:07 pm

    i need some help with my feelings an experience i had i was with this person for 7yrs an on the 6th year wit started quarrelling an my girl always used tp say she cant be free cause of our relationship we done two months ago an she was in a relationship 2 weeks after we broke up without i knowing i spoke to her today an she tells me the person is everything she wanted me to be an they are a perfect match but she say she still ha feelings for me but cant be wit me she jus wa be friends wa is the best things to do an the worst part about it she is my neighbour so i see her everyday an it hurts alot

  77. Hannah_x permalink
    December 30, 2011 2:06 am

    I am so not over my ex… =’(

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  79. Highlyfavored permalink
    January 6, 2012 4:56 pm

    Great article. I too, recently divorced my ex husband of 7 years about 9 months ago. We were together 12 years. Over the past year, I have come to realize the woman that God made me. We split in November of 2010 and by January 2011, he had a new “love” who is 17 years younger than him and by the summer he had moved her in with her child who was then under a year old. Anyways, initially this was very hard for me to accept, even though I divorced him for his cheating. BTW I was his 3rd wife! I have come to realize that he has a lot of issues and I was naive and ignored the RED FLAGS! I have learned that we attract who we are, which is why it is sooooo important to know who you are before gettting into a relationship. When I met him, I was 18 years old and at that age, you are in a conflict with who you are and who others want you to be. I cannot say that I don’t think about him a lot, but it’s not thoughts of us getting back together because I am a transformed person. I dated a guy but it didn’t last and I broke it off because I saw the same patterns of the new guy in my ex. Since then I have been single for 7 months. I am learning so much about me and now it is all starting to make sense why my ex husband has had three wives. It’s sad for him because he still yet has not figured out who is. Not to mention, the holidays have been rough for him because during those time is when he texts me sporadically or calls me. We do have a daughter, but i have come to realize because of how he cut our dtr off when we split, that he only texts me sending his ” i love my dtr and miss her” just to have some contact with me bcus he knows that my dtr is my world after GOd. But i pray for him everyday and night. It does not bother me to see him with his new “love” because I know deep down that he got her on the rebound and he truly has a problem with being alone. When I met him 12 years ago, he was ending his second marriage-due to infidelity. Like someone said-what goes around certainly comes around!

  80. kim. permalink
    January 9, 2012 1:09 am

    its been 9 months that me and my ex boyfriends ended and well i’m not over him i think hes moved on by now because hes dated 2 girls after me and well i’ve been talking to other guys but i just cant accept the fact that its all over and theres nothing i can i do but atleast i moved on and i’m just happy hes doing good i wish nothing but the best for him he just gave me so much to let go like nothing all have are the memories but the momments/: hangout with him all the time texting , calling eachother like everyday non-stop and never running out of things to say to eachother i miss him so much but i guess its whats best for me. one day hopefully he’ll understand how i felt and why things went the way they went with us. love you forever and always. jwp <3

  81. pixie permalink
    January 17, 2012 5:11 pm

    Read ‘I Hate His/Her Ex’ By Alex Cooper. I was having loads of problems with my fiance’s ex and after reading this book, have resolved nearly all of the issues that were causing a problem in my relationship. :) xx

  82. Jessica permalink
    January 19, 2012 6:43 am

    About four months ago I My ex dumped me and we were still talking off and on until last week were we completly stopped… We were together for 3 years but off and on the last one. It’s was so off and on I felt I might have started the getting over process since then. The relationship was so unhealthy, and he treated me badly. I met someone 3 months after the break up and really liked the person.. I’m confused and stuck because I am really into this person but I don’t know if it’s the right thing to keep dating him even after this article? I’m confused because my ex and I were so off and on I feel numb… Any opinions?

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    January 20, 2012 11:24 pm

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  84. January 25, 2012 8:11 pm

    Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve come to realize I’m finally over my ex. I haven’t spoken to him in several months mainly b/c I didn’t want to. It was dragging feelings on that should have stopped a long time ago. I feel so much happier now that I’ve finally put the past behind me b/c I honestly thought that I would never let him go b/c I did truly love him. But now he’s in my past finally and I can finally look forward to a new relationship.

    For all of those wondering if you’ll ever get over someone you love, you will! It just takes time, patience, and most importantly as stated in this article taking care of yourself. Getting to know yourself and what you truly want or don’t want in a relationship is really important to getting over a past relationship that ended for a reason.

  85. Macey permalink
    February 2, 2012 5:08 am

    I am basically writing you back to give you all of my thanks. Ever since I finished working on the first kit (Love Me Again), my results have been excellent. All I can say is YES, YES YES!! You have been a great help to me and very patient as well. That is so important. When people start working on things that are new to them, there is so much that they don’t know. Especially since working on such kits you are calling on spirits for help and you don’t want to make any mistakes because you’re afraid that anything could go wrong if the work is not done right (such as myself) and I know that I have questioned you a lot. I can admit that I was having some doubts at first and that I was just hoping that this relationship could be helped due to all of the negativity in the relationship. Now I know that there was help and hope for us once again. You have been the best as far as love spell is concern and responding to questions in a timely manner. And I can also tell that you as the support staff are very bright and well educated people. I just wanted to leave you with this note. But mainly you. Even though I know that there are other spell caster, you have been the one that i have really seen a good result from the casting of the spell….thanks once again Dr.Gboco(gbocotemple@yahoo.com)

  86. asley joe permalink
    February 6, 2012 10:03 pm

    I am so thankful that ULTIMATE SPELL is GOOD to me for casting a spell that brought my wife back home. I am old enough now to look back over my life and see where He has brought me from. I see His hand on my life the whole way. How I love Him! I am thankful for his SPELL CASTING. I am thankful for His abiding presence. I am thankful for He now make my wife have patience with me as I am growing. I am thankful, oh so thankful, that he brought my lovly girl back to me which is my precious love. I am thankful for the joy that He’s brought into my life: my wife, my beautiful children, my home. He is precious and good and altogether lovely. Oh bless His name! ultimatespelltemple@gmail.com.” brigs cares….

  87. loveth permalink
    February 7, 2012 12:36 am

    Like anybody would be, I was very skeptical about using a love spell or any spell for that matter but I was absolutely shocked when Tim called me after I had you guys cast my “return my lover” spell for me. It wasn’t 24 hours that I had my spell cast that he came back to me (practically on his knees). He broke up with me over a month ago and now we are happier than ever. Thank you all!” templeoflive@gmail.com

  88. Jasmine permalink
    February 14, 2012 3:35 am

    i really read all of this and it helped me so much. like in a way i just found this and now truly know that im over my ex boyfriend. and that i actually feel bad for him cus he rused into a relationship. but after i read this i deleted everything from him facebook messgaes everything. and i feel so much better now. like i would try to impress him threw facebook pictures and crap like that. but i feel alot better (:

  89. February 14, 2012 12:19 pm

    Thank you for sharing the article with me. I’m out of a 34 year marriage because he wanted someone more interesting and fun. He went from our marriage into a relationship with a woman younger than our daughters, 30. I moved away. After 4 years, I still think of him often. I’m in counseling and working on it. I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man, very mature and fun to be with. I don’t plan on marrying again or living with another. I like my independence! Maybe our marriage was always on the rocks and I needed the divorce to see that I am an independent woman! ;o) Thank you again for the article, it made my day.

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  92. Jonathan permalink
    February 20, 2012 5:33 am

    Me and my ex gf . She dumped me like three weeks ago.. Im still not over it. We just fought too much, she said i was too controlling, but she was always flirting with guys wenever i wasnt around… Either way it was all a shame it didnt work. We were together almost 3 years. An im only 17. But as far as getting over her.. Itll be a long time especially when i see her almost everywhere.

  93. Leonard permalink
    February 25, 2012 9:32 am

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  94. mark permalink
    February 25, 2012 9:34 am

    To powerful kumar Spells – I wanted to write and thank you for everything you have done for me. Remember that horrible job I was working when I first contact you? It was a complete and total nightmare! I was taking Prozac just to help me deal with the depression that was caused with being there. Getting out of bed in the morning was never easy because I knew I had to go spend the next 8 hours in misery. A few days after I requested a new job/promotion money spell, I was waiting in line at a coffee shop and heard the gentlemen behind me talking about how hard it was filling the new marketing position at their firm. I couldn’t help but overhear what they were saying and turned around. One of the men standing behind me was an old college buddy. We had lost contact after college and went our separate ways but it was total magick that he was in that coffee shop as it is no where near where he lives or works. I mentioned that I overheard their conversation and asked if we could meet the following day to discuss it. After getting my coffee, I walked into my old job, quit on the spot and never looked back. I have been happily employed now for 5 years at a wonderful firm and am the Director of Marketing and Sales (and no longer need Prozac to go to work). I also met my future wife there. I owe this all to you!. powerful kumar(powerfulkumarspell@yahoo.com)

  95. Elise Renee Gingerich permalink
    February 25, 2012 6:31 pm

    I Am Not Even Feeling H0rny For The Whole Dating Scene Here In Lawrence Kansas Even, Right Now…..No, I Am So Not Even Feeling H0rny For The Whole Dating Scene Right Now, In This Town Of Lawrence Kansas, Where I Live Even! I Say To Myself: Why Should I Even Bother?! I Just Get Used Anyways….Yes, I Just Get Used, By Useless Idiots That I Try To Hang Out With, Anyways, So Why Even Bother?! And By The Way: To The Parents Of Lawrence Kansas, Especially With Teenagers, I Am A 39 Year Old Woman, Without Kids Of My Own, And I Don’t Think That I Should Have To Randomly Watch Over Your Kids, Parents Of Lawrence Kansas, Especially With Teenagers, Because I Did Not Have Interc0urse, And Pop Your Kids Out Of My Body Myself, And Because I Did Not Have Interc0urse, And Pop Your Dumb Kids Out Of Me, Myself, Even At Age 39, I Do Not Think That I Should Even Have To Randomly Watch Your Dumb Kids, Parents Of Lawrence Kansas, Because They Are Not My Kids, And I Don’t Really Care About Your Kids, Parents Of Lawrence Kansas! Maybe You All Parents In This Town Of Lawrence Kansas, Need To Be Watching All Yor Little Brats Better….Yes, You Parents Of Lawrence Kansas Really Need To Be Keeping Better Watch Over Your Little Brats Better! Especially After School Hours….Yes, Especially Right After School Hours! You All Don’t Know Me Very Well Anyways, I Could Be A Child M0lester Or A Drug Dealer (Or A Drug Dealer Or A Child M0lester) Selling Drugs To All Of Your Kids….I Could Even Be Selling Drugs To All Of Your Kids, Parents Of Lawrence Kansas! You Parents Here In Lawrence Kansas, Obviously Don’t Know Some Woman Like Me, That’s All I’m Saying….(That’s All I’m Really Trying To Say Is All!)

  96. February 28, 2012 9:20 am

    I am sooo happy then delirious!he isnt the one who isnt so over me..i went in2 a new relationship b4 it was over i went thru Hell in my 9yr relationship.i lov my nu man 2bits.he s everything i wanted in a man.at last i have found true love n a perfect match.thanx i read 10ways mo than 3tmes.

  97. TruthSpeech permalink
    February 28, 2012 1:15 pm

    I’m good on all of those except #9. The thought of him w/ someone new does make me sad. He is the one who wanted the divorce and that part still hurts but I do not cry all the time now.

  98. Diva permalink
    March 18, 2012 1:13 am

    I asked you to do a love spell for me back in February. And indeed it worked! You had told me that it could take up to 3 days in order to see results. I can confirm that me and my partner are back together and very happy! I would like to thank you for all your help. You were always there to answer each one of my MANY emails and to give me advice. What I like is that my partner didn’t change his behaviour, he’s exactly the same person, the love spell just helped him to rethink about what had happened between us. Thanks Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

  99. Paula permalink
    March 19, 2012 1:49 pm

    Is this a dream? If it is, then I do not want to wake up!!!! I love you and I will tell all my friends what miracles you have performed! I am your devoted follower now and will come back when I have future problems. Do you need his help? if yes contact him via: Ancientspiritualtemple@gmail.com

  100. Chantel permalink
    April 12, 2012 6:28 am

    Its so hard to get over your ex esp when know he has moved on with a girl you are familiar with.jus being yourself and showing you dnt care wil do the trick

  101. mercury@mars permalink
    April 13, 2012 1:02 pm

    oh…i guess nw am moving on.

  102. mercury@mars permalink
    April 13, 2012 1:06 pm

    :)

  103. cevena permalink
    April 13, 2012 5:17 pm

    >My ex-husband and I had always manged to stay friendly
    >after our divorce, but I always wanted to get back
    >together with him, and he was never sure. So, I
    >thought it was about time I MADE him sure! All it took
    >was to contact you and a request for a specific love
    >spell, and KABAKA spell?s powers began to work their
    >magic. My spell is working because guess what: My ?ex?
    >is soon to be my husband again! This is nothing short
    >of a miracle. Thank you, kabaka. Words are not
    >enough.contact the great man on KABAKASPELL@gmail.com, or his mobile number. +2348169750752. You will be happy you did.

  104. hasan permalink
    April 13, 2012 5:20 pm

    I want to thank the spell caster who brought my ex back. I have been scammed many times until I meant him online, he also helped me to get a good job. His name is KABAKA. You can contact him too on KABAKASPELL@GMAIL.COM. Or his mobile number. +2348169750752. His is so powerful.

  105. Ann D. permalink
    April 24, 2012 5:10 pm

    Omg. You inspire me. I really laughed on number 10, reading my ex’s horoscope. This is so true. Although i tried to resist myself from reading his horoscope, i sometimes can’t help it. Maybe i’m still not over him completely. It’s been a month since we broke up. But i can tell i’m on the process of moving on because i no longer cry whenever something reminds me of him. But the horoscope still persist though. Lol. Thanks for the article, it helped me realized something :) more power!

  106. Walter permalink
    May 2, 2012 11:41 pm

    Thank you abalabatemple@gmail.com for taking the time for bringing my man back to me. I went to 3 different spell casters, but only you got the job done. Like I said before I appreciate all your time, effort, and energy you put during the spell cast. He is more open and he admitted he loves me and really want to be in a relationship with me. After 2 years of seperartion we are now back THANK YOU ………WALTER

  107. michelle permalink
    May 14, 2012 11:50 pm

    My ex-boyfriend dumped me 4 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him.I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me.I was so confuse and don’t know what to do,so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness.I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,we are about to get married.once again thank you ultimate spell.you are truly talented and gifted Email:ultimatespelltemple@gmail.com is the only answer.he can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man ultimatespelltemple@gmail.com

  108. Carlee b permalink
    June 4, 2012 5:11 am

    Wow that is all so true. I feel like I’m almost there. I still can’t listen to certain songs and I can’t look at old pictures but I don’t seem to care that my ex is dating someone. Which is weird.. But everyday is different and I’m really focusing on myself and ways to better myself so that I can be the best girlfriend to my future boyfriend.

  109. DEANN permalink
    June 9, 2012 10:07 am

    I am so happy my husband was gone for over a year and with antogai spell help me, now he is back! We just renewed our marriage vows, and are much happier than we have been in over ten years! If you are reading this and need help and are lost not knowing where to turn, call or email antogaispelltemple@yahoo.com or +234 8073314012 You will be so glad you did! He spells work so fast and he knows all about Divinity and Angels and he will even teach you all about that too !

  110. June 13, 2012 11:58 pm

    Thank you vovolaspellcast@yahoo.com ! The love spell worked and he returned to me. You are a marvellous, wonderful, stupendous, shocking and extraordinary person with so much talent. You have a gift like no other I have seen. You are an amazing person with a beautiful soul and inner balance that shines on all you meet. You surpass any and all other gifted individuals I have ever met. Your information is so accurate it is incredibly unbelievable. Your wonder-working magical know how of the universe and its laws are magnified within a structure so unique it’s impossible to find anywhere. Again, thank you for everything! visit him on: vovolaspellcast-com.webs.com

  111. SERENE permalink
    June 16, 2012 9:56 am

    Hi evryone
    My name is serene, am from canada. My husband has been sick for the past 11yrs now and the doctor demand that my husband needs surgery, that his kidney is bad and he need a kidney transplant. so just 2weeks ago a family relation introduce a female spell caster online (priestessmunak@gmail.com) to that did a spell for my husband’s health. she casted the spell and also sent a potion and a soap for my husband to bath with for 3good days.
    The greatest miracle that happened was my husband wakeup on the 3rd day morning very bright and he said he is feeling different and strong.
    when we went for checkup, the doctor was surprised and was asking several questions.
    right now as i write, my husband is well and health just as the Priestess Munak has mention.
    I cant thank her enough for restoring my husband’s health and bringing our family together.
    Godbless you priestess munak.
    I would also want you to meet her just as i did with faith on priestessmunak@gmail.com.

  112. Sonia permalink
    June 18, 2012 11:13 pm

    I am so thankful to DR OPINGO SPELL TEMPLE! My husband of eight years overnight “decided” on a separation and suddenly felt that we should be separated to see how things work out for us. I immediately knew it was the end of the road for us, lets face it, how many people do you know who get back together after a separation?I don’t know many. Having a marriage break up sucks big time and to be honest it did hurt my ego and played havoc on my self esteem because I didn’t want to go out and have people ask me all the time “ where’s your husband? Haven’t seen you guys in quite some time.”
    I was looking up the internet and I came across all the crappy articles about how to get back with your ex and I was a little turned off… Then I saw a testimony about DR OPINGO SPELL TEMPLE.
    Then i contactd them, I immediately ordered for a spell, and to my surprise after four days I suddenly got a call from him. We met up some time soon and he was desperate to get me back! I know this sounds bad but it was really nice for me to see him in such an uncomfortable situation begging for me back!
    So after a few days of him trying to win me back over I allowed it to get to the point where we would flirt with each other like we use to do. We finally had that serious conversation and sat down to talk things over. Thank you DR OPINGO SPELL TEMPLE for your powerful spell to get my man back . It worked out marvelously for me and I would recommend it to all the ladies who want to be back with their men. contact Dr Opingo on his Email: ebortempleoflife02@yahoo.com

    Sonia

  113. Vaehs03 permalink
    July 13, 2012 1:40 pm

    My ex broke up with me 2wks before xmas 2010 and Iv been single since. I took the break up hard and I still label myself as damaged goods lol I met my ex when we were 17, it wasn’t my first long term relationship but it was the first time I felt the way I did. We had a LDR for the first year and a half and there were trust issues on both sides.. The last year was hell, all we did was argue and it was the most heart breaking thing to watch the person I love slip away from me in front of my eyes and the more I tried to fix it the worse it got. I ended up going away for a week to give him space and he took that as a invitation to break up with me – Via text message. Coward!
    Anyways I never got closure, So many questions and no answers. I think the questions were mainly to help me see where I went wrong and what was a lie or not. I’m guilty of drunk texting/calling lol but so was he. there were songs I couldnt listen to with getting a knot in my stomach, There was a road we took everyday to uni that I would close my eyes whenever I passed it on the train, Loud cars with loud bass and music would make me cringe! certain words or sayings would remind me of him, tv shows, We both still know eachothers numbers off by heart, Id avoid the car park he used to park in at uni because I constantly checked it everyday whenever I passed it to go to classes, He was on my mind 24/7. when I met new people my first thought would be “he’s nothing like my ex” I would dream about him almost every night.. Didnt help that we started talking again 7mnths after we split..

    Im pretty happy now though, and I dont do any of that stuff now. Iv had so much time to think about things and I know I deserve better them him.. I dont know what changed but I know I was tired of missing someone who treated me like sh*t and had no consideration for my feelings. Iv seen so many happy couples and it gives me hope :) I WILL find my mr right, just got to give it time…. And Iv learnt a few things from my ex too

  114. Aida permalink
    July 20, 2012 7:49 am

    I am completely over him then! I saw him a couple of weeks ago & I felt as if it was the first time seeing him. We were together for over a year and the break up was horrible. It took me exactly a year to get over him. It sounds strange but after seeing him and talking to him, I finally accepted the fact that we are done. He’s got a girlfriend and they’ve been dating for 8 months & I’m so happy for him. my ex and I are both aquarius so I have to read my daily horoscope but I’ll admit that I hardly think about him as I read it. I will always love him bit I feel so much better now that I know we’re done. No more thinking what I’d & I feel great! :)

  115. charlie permalink
    July 21, 2012 1:42 am

    my name is charlie from united kingdom i had a problem with my wife
    sometimes ago but never knew what the problem was,i tried to asked her but
    she refused to tell,me what it was as time goes on i discovered she was
    having an affair with a friend of mine that happens to be my best friend,i
    was so sad that i never knew what to do next,during my search for a way out
    i met a friend of mine who had similar problem and introduced me to a man
    who helped him with his situation,on getting to the man i discovered he was
    a spell caster i was shocked because i have not had anything to do with a
    spell caster in my entire life so i tried to give this man a chance cos i
    never believed in spell casting as i thought it will not work for me but to
    my surprise i got positive results and i was able to get my wife back from
    him even after the spell caster did all i discovered my wife fell much more
    in love with me on like before so i was so happy that i never know what to
    do for him so i am using this opportunity to tell anyone on this blog having
    similar problem visit dogurutemplesolution@gmail.com,and your problems
    shall be solved……Good luck.

  116. sanchex permalink
    July 24, 2012 12:55 pm

    my testimony goes to ultimate spell temple,me and my ex breakup 4 months ago and she told me that she dont love me any more and went to be with another guy.i was still in love with her and need her back i try to get her back but all my effort was in vail until i reach out to the internet for help and i saw a testimony of a spell caster,i decided to give it a tryand i contacted him and tell him my problem.He cast a love spell for me and guarantee me of three days that my ex will come back to me and to my greatest suprise my ex come back to me and beg for forgiveness and promise never to live me again,i am so happy my ex is back to me again,thank you ultimate spell for reuniting me and my ex back together again.if you need him to help you Email ultimatespelltemple@gmail.com

  117. braka permalink
    July 27, 2012 1:23 am

    I am braka i lives in slovakia and i was in a serious relationship with my ex guy for three good years..
    One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party.
    i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us..

    Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner (gbojorotemple@yahoo.com).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 3 days i was in my office when my ex guy called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him.
    i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely
    baby(Ceslav)…i wish you the best of luck…

  118. docas permalink
    July 27, 2012 11:08 am

    I appreciate all you have done for myself and my family. My name is Sam and after contacting so many fake spell casters that only played with my heart you´d got what I wanted: my family back.
    Your sincere kindness and thoughtfulness inspires me. You have touched my heart deeply and I will forever be grateful that you got rid of all the negative influences that surrounded my wife and I.
    Now we are back and my son is very happy again, with his parents together…
    Thanks Dr gbojoro! Post under a website at http://gbojoro.webs.com
    All my gratefulness

  119. deborah permalink
    August 4, 2012 10:38 am

    i am giving this testimony cos l am happy

    My name is mrs. Deborah Collins from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in july 26th this year on a business summit. i ment a man called dr. Atakpo.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 2 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 4 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address atakpospelltemple@yahoo.com

    Great Atakpo i thank you very much thank you in 1000000 times.. if not you i would have been losted and wasted thank you.

    please make sure you contact him for any financial difficulties okay..

  120. Menza permalink
    August 8, 2012 3:48 am

    I really want to thank Dr.Daram for his good intervention in my life and also use this opportunity to inform others that have not find a geneu spell caster about Dr.Daram.It proves to me that things real does not fascinate it self.Well am menza from USA precisely from Chicago.I was having a problem in my relationship and i didn’t know what to do.And hv been seeing so many spell caster on net,bt the question was how do i get know the true one?With faith i decided to contact the one that came out from my mind,And to my greatest surprise i choose the real one!I don’t really know how to explain my self because am full of happiness.Right now I and my boy friend are back again! its really wonderful!This is his contact address: khumaharattemplesolution@gmail.com

  121. nanny permalink
    August 10, 2012 9:52 pm

    I have bought spells online non stop for a long time, and in 5 years I have not been able to find a professional and reliable person like Dr.Zack Balo. he is by far and most definitely the best and unique powerful spell caster you might find. email wiseindividualspell@gmail.com to locate him when you need him.

  122. kelvin permalink
    August 11, 2012 10:41 pm

    Dear friends, my name is kelvin from Canada, i am into business,but it was not bringing out profit as it was supposed to, life was not what living cos things was bad for me financially, i have a beautiful wife with four kids to take care off. i sold my car and most of my property just to keep earns mate and still things was not going easily for me. so i complained to a friend of mine who said he knew a powerful spell caster from Africa called Dr.EGOGO who can perform magical money spell or good luck or automatic promotion in office, making someone love you back, spells to bring close one in jail or lost back home,healing spell etc.that help straightened his brother life from taking hard drugs. At first i was confused and doubtful, then i decided to give a try and did what Dr.EGOGO told me to do, to my surprise 3 days later things started going well for me, i got what i ever bargained for, my business was flourishing like never before, i now have
    enough money to take good care of my family and we are living happily,I thank His greatness Dr.EGOGO for bringing my source to hope and joy with his powerful spell,well if you want to be a living testimony like me or interested in any spell casting you can contact Dr.EGOGO via this email

  123. John permalink
    August 12, 2012 11:45 am

    My Name is John. I will love to share my testimony to all my friends because i never believe i will have my girlfriend back. When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status.when i went to her to her place of work she told her friends she never want to see me.I tried all i could do to have her back with me but all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to meet my aunt.I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how she embarrass me in her place of work,he told me he is going to help me but don’t believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him,he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back home the following day and i called him when i got home,he said he is busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 3 days that is Thursday. My girlfriend called me at exactly 10:35am on Thursday and apologies for all she had done, she said she never knew what she’s doing she promised not to do that again.It was like am hallucinating when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my girlfriend called me on phone apologies. Am posting this to the forum for everybody that is interested in meeting the man for help this is his email address :Ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com All i have to say is THANK YOU DOCTOR

  124. eiyt permalink
    August 20, 2012 11:17 am

    Hi, Dr.Zack Balo did some work for me about 3 weeks ago and I just wanted to let you all know that the results are really starting to happen! My ex and I ran into each other at Sears of all places! It was totally unexpected. He seemed a little nervous at first, but then we actually got to talking. Later that night he ended up apologizing to me for everything! And I mean EVERYTHING!:) I am so surprised yet I knew you would come through for me. We are now working things out and I am more than grateful to wiseindividualspell@gmail.com for everything that you’ve done for us. Thank You so much!

  125. Mary Lou permalink
    September 4, 2012 9:26 pm

    Thank you for sharing this article.
    If there’s one thing I have learned it’d be NOT getting into a relationship after you just broke up. Here is this guy. We’ve been friends for over a year and we dated a couple weeks until I broke up because I wasn’t sure if I truly did like him. 7 months later and we started dating again and this time it lasted longer. I was so in love with him and we had great times. But at a certain point the first signs of trouble started. It made me very tired and I felt like I didn’t wanna put anymore effort in the relationship so I ended it. My boyfriend was broken and he stalked me for days begging to not give up on us.

    I was tired of boys and that relationship and I had been struggling with my true nature for a couple of years. So I jumped into a new relationship with a girl. It was sweet and everything went so much serene. But I felt like she never really opened up about her life and a lot of times when we were together we had nothing to talk about. So after 5 months I found the strength to tell her what’s going on and I broke up with her.. Also I found out that I am not gay.

    I felt like a monster. I felt like all I was doing was breaking people’s hearts and hurt their feelings. AND STILL. Because after very short time since I broke up with that girl, I started dating this boy I’ve known for more than a year. We go to the same church. I’ve always really liked him and known this could get into something serious. Now we’re still in a relationship and he’s very sweet, calm and he takes good care of me.

    But the problem is that I’m NOT over my first ex. Last week he started talking to me and after that we skyped. He is also in a new relationship but he says he is trying his best since it’s a long-distance relationship. During that conversation I caught myself on still having feelings for him. And I’m pretty sure that he does too.
    I keep on remembering all the good memories and when I see him it feels like I’m back in the time that we started dating and I was so in love. I’ve fantasiesd about getting back together. But that would mean that I have to break up with my current boyfriend and I’d hate myself forever for hurting someone AGAIN and being so selfish. If I could turn back time….

    What I’m trying to say is that getting into a relationship after you just broke up is not okay.
    It’s like hiding the broken place deep down and building something new on top of it just to cover it up but the new will never last long if it is standing on a broken ground.
    So take time for yourself to let it heal!
    If I could turn back time….

  126. PROPHET DR AMED permalink
    September 15, 2012 12:07 pm

    THE GREAT POWERFUL SPELL CASTER THAT BRING BACK MY EX BOYFRIEND.
    I just wanted to say thank you prophet amed for all you have done for me.
    He is back now. That very powerful spell to STOP THE DIVORCE – and get my ex boyfriend back.
    My name is Joy Philip, from Canada. I never believed in love
    spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa
    march this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is PROPHET DR AMED
    he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone,
    lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or
    luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to
    marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down because
    our
    relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was
    against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster,
    i
    told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At
    first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try.
    And
    in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend(now husband) called me by
    himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with
    his
    mother and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I
    didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my
    boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now
    and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job
    and
    our lives became much better.in case you are in any situation you can contact
    prophet at his email solutionhome39yahoo.com or his personal cell +2347053375151
    Thank you for all your help prophet.

  127. emery permalink
    September 16, 2012 10:08 am

    emery Priestess Dr egogo is the most powerful real and serious witch that I do admire in every way and whose sensitive, compassionate, wise and dedicated help I do value. I know soon I will write here in detail the whole story with a fairytale like end for now I have to write down that egogo does honor her word, never lost patience with me and most importantly he did cast for me a very powerful love spell she was so generous to offer, I was given a three day ceremony to perform, I was not even finished with my ceremony, as I had still one day left, and yet…on this second day that means only two days after egogo did cast her spell the man of my dreams whom I met due to her previous powerful magic contacted me all of the sudden…I am in shock yet the intensity of emotions and energies I feel, and this all that is happening… I know it is all due to her magic…due to magic…and I shall never forget that you are responsible for my happiness…dearest egogotemple@yahoo.com

  128. September 21, 2012 9:33 pm

    When the man I love broke up with me, my world fell apart. I had gone to several casters and I got no results or insufficient ones. I found alteroffiretemple@gmail.com and gave another try to retrieve my lover and restore the passionate relationship I had with him. I’m so glad I did and trusted him. He performed a spiritual cleansing to banish negative energies and cast a love spell. After 3days, the man I missed dearly started to call me and told me few days ago that he still loves me and wants to try again. Thank you

  129. shakya permalink
    October 8, 2012 1:52 pm

    I find it difficult to sleep because my boyfriend has not been treating me the way he all to to treating me.He will not call nor come and visit me,and when i see him i will continue to complain and don’t have my time and when i ask him if i offend him,he will say no and i don’t know why he keep on doing the wrong thing to me.I love him with all my life to the extent that i can ever die for him and still he still embarrass me out side when i see him.
    I always cry both day and night and ever when he be the one who wrong me,i will still go to him and apologize,the problem i was having with him over some month ago is that he don’t pick my calls and don’t want to see me,he will go around telling people that i am pestling his life,and also tell them to tell me that he don’t love me again.And this is a man that we have have been dating for over three years and down he thorn me down,but i give glory to ogogospelloraclee@gmail.com who find in this forum and he was faithful and able to solve my problem for me.Now i am happy he his back to me.

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  131. October 25, 2012 1:19 pm

    It’s unbelievable how fortunate I feel after finding your website. For the past 6 months, I have been so depressed after losing my fiancé to another woman. My money situation worsened so much that I thought I’d have to file for bankruptcy. I had a huge amount of debt and I didn’t know what to do. Out of complete and total desperation, I contacted many of those so-called individuals who promised powerful magic, witchcraft or black magic. None of them worked and none were as wonderful, affectionate and warm as mojo has been. He is definitely different from the others and I felt immediate hope and strength from hearing about the promises he had to offer. He carries an air of purity and divine strength that is as pure as fresh snow on the ground. I requested mojo’s most powerful spells and I was relieved right away that I had someone to solve my problems for me. His spells worked wonders and I am now back with my fiancé and my money troubles resolved itself after winning the lottery. mojo, I have no idea what I would have done without you being there to help me out his email is mojospiritualtemple@yahoo.com

  132. joy permalink
    November 4, 2012 11:17 pm

    my testimony goes to ultimate spell temple,me and my ex breakup 4 months ago and she told me that she dont love me any more and went to be with another guy.i was still in love with her and need her back i try to get her back but all my effort was in vail until i reach out to the internet for help and i saw a testimony of a spell caster,i decided to give it a tryand i contacted him and tell him my problem.He cast a love spell for me and guarantee me of three days that my ex will come back to me and to my greatest suprise my ex come back to me and beg for forgiveness and promise never to live me again,i am so happy my ex is back to me again,thank you ultimate spell for reuniting me and my ex back together again.if you need him to help you Email almightycahaspelltemple@gmail.com

  133. November 6, 2012 9:29 pm

    Hi Friends My name is Laura Johnson i am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 4years and every thing was going on smoothly but October 5, 2012 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a date but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first I was scared but I have to give this man a trial because I love Ben very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this great spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and a caring heart…i am testifying to this great spell caster Dr Shiva you are a grate man in this world and you mean so much to me you are the best spell caster that i have ever hear off in all website contact this man via this email if you really need to get your problems solve Email:.. hinduspelltemple@yahoo.com

  134. dora permalink
    November 12, 2012 9:45 am

    ‘My name is Dora I am from United States, I was I a relationship with Ben and we loved and cherished ourselves for 3 good years and every thing was going on smoothly but February 14, 2012 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a date but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first I was scared but I have to give this man a trial because I love Ben very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this great spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and a caring heart…i am testifying to this great spell caster ATINGO TEMPLE. if you need his help you can contact him on atingospiritualtemple@live.com

  135. December 17, 2012 11:00 pm

    First of all I would like to say fantastic blog! I had a quick question
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  136. kasha permalink
    December 21, 2012 4:38 am

    - I am kasha i lives in uk and i was in a serious relationship with my ex guy for three good years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us.. Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner (maduraitemple@yahoo.com).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 3 days i was in my office when my ex guy called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Ceslav)…i wish you the best of luck…

  137. rita permalink
    December 21, 2012 12:35 pm

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  138. January 13, 2013 3:53 pm

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    My story starts about 4 years ago..after leaving a bad marriage a year and a half earlier I met someone this guy was amazing with me and the children I have in time I learnt he was a loner and done drugs before we met..he was well educated and came from overseas to a small country to live alone in a new job.

    He fitted into my family and everyone loved him and he said we brang propose to his life something he never had..we had a good relationship something I never had and always wanted he made me feel like a accomplished person before we met I had not alot and struggled in different ways..then suddenly I was something somebody.

    After 2 years together he asked me to go to work with him overseas for 6 weeks I couldn’t I had just started a new job and felt I would be to difficult..he was gone 6 weeks he called sent amazing messages asked for my ring size

    When he got back 4 days later he told me he couldn’t commit to our relationship and he needed it over I was devasted I left my job started another …at first we kept sleeping together for first year last slept together 6 mths ago then he stopped that so i went to man to man not sleeping with all trying to full the gap that wasn’t to be fulled..

    Its been one and a half years since it was over we live in a small town I have a big family an they like him some visit him regularly my father does also I say nothing i don’t want to be a drama..He lives next to my grandparents which i like to visit but how can you move forward..I have a dog so does he there is only one park in the town you can have them

    I don’t miss him as I did he has stayed totally single such a lone cowboy I do want him to be happy and never be nasty about him..Love is a funny thing sometimes you will never forget someone and It is what it is..I think I can’t move forward with someone until he is outta my mind how long does it takes nearly two years so far.

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  144. Gillian permalink
    January 29, 2013 7:07 am

    Hello every one there. AM Gillian , I found a great spell caster on line who helped me to get back my husband who has left me for the pass 4 years. we where married for 10 years without a child and my friend introduce me to a real spell caster named Dr.oduwa, which i never believe it exist but after the meeting of this spell caster my problem where solved and now i am with my husband who left me for the pass four years my life and my entire family are now happy now i have two kids with the help of this great spell caster. thanks to doctor oduwa and i will advice anyone in need of help to contact him with this email address oduwatemple@yahoo.com

  145. January 29, 2013 7:27 pm

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  146. February 1, 2013 9:19 am

    Lol I cannot help but laugh because I am guilty for all of 10 things mentioned. I am slowly but surely getting over my ex though.
    Do you believe that while you’re in the process of healing, you can still talk/hang out with your ex? no right?
    It’s so annoying because he just keeps coming back into my life somehow.
    “As soon as I accept that you’re gone, you’re back”
    “How her you love her when you have her, not when she’s moved on and found someone better because you treated her wrong”

    my motto for every break up “better in time”

    • Munchkins permalink
      March 6, 2013 4:43 am

      Yeah that was my ex and I. It was really toxic. It’s like neither could really let go so we were in this relationship limbo of hooking up and hanging out like a couple but we obviously weren’t a couple. I finally ended it though. I guess it’s all about setting boundaries.

  147. Tasha permalink
    February 18, 2013 4:49 am

    This is true it doesn’t help if you are desperate it always backfires love yourself first a relationship is not always what you need

  148. February 24, 2013 9:31 am

    I Hello am Jeniffer from UK i wanna thank Dr okadibo for what he has done for me at first i taught he was scam but until i just decided to follow my mind.i told him that my ex lover which i loved with all my heart left me for another all Dr okadibo did was to laugh and said he will be back to me in 3days time i taught he was lying on the 3rd day my ex called me and said he wanna see me,i was shocked then he came over to my place and started begging that he was bewitched,immediately i forgives him and now we are back and he his really madly in love with me.All thanks to Dr okadibo he indeed wonderful incise you wanna contact him here his is private mail okadibotemple@gmail.com

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  150. March 5, 2013 3:16 pm

    Reading this article 10 ways you know your over your ex has really help me realize I havebeen over her even in our relationship. The relationship felt kind of distance because of poor communication skill. Not on my part of course. My partner had a problem with opening up to me. And not just me anyone we knew. She waited until after we broke up to open up. Its too late. After we broke up I began the healing process right away. I was happy the next day. It took her longer because she didn’t feel the same way I did. She was still heads n da clouds. I told her to do what it takes to get over me just don’t drag my name in the gutter like I am a piece of trash. I wasn’t the worst I just fell out of love. Things happen…

  151. Munchkins permalink
    March 6, 2013 4:34 am

    It’s been a week since I ended things with my ex and it’s been pretty difficult. I’m not at the phase where I’m constantly close to tears anymore, but I still feel disconnected often, like I’m kinda lost. Some days I go through the whole day not thinking about him so much and I can honestly say that I’m moving on, then I go to bed and dream about him, leaving me to wake up with fresh wounds again :-( I really agree with your post because I’m still doing all those things you mentioned. I can’t wait until I reach the point where it’s just a distant memory.

  152. March 13, 2013 4:31 pm

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  153. Aishwarya permalink
    March 14, 2013 7:53 pm

    I had a really bad experience
    I dates this guy for 3 years but it wasn’t working out Nd all so we finally decided and broke up. Now we are like best buddies and I think we were always mean to be friends …. And well we do talk everything and anything and I don’t mind him talking about girls and not does he mind if I talk about boys . It’s all cool but then I know I don’t feel for him but its just I am yet ready to let go of him ie see him with someone else . I feel scared for some unknown reason and that’s why him and me are fighting . Sigh it’s complicated but I am working on it . After reading this I realise I am kind of over him but I can’t imagine him yet with someone physically .
    Thanks

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  156. April 5, 2013 11:24 pm

    Hey This is what I did and i was heart broken for months and months
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    Once i realized I wAs being a self centred prick and i only felt like i loved her because of our brain chemistry when we are in lust, I realized I didnt have to get over her cause i never loved her.
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    i really enjoyed the article. (: however, after reading this article, it seems to me that i’m not over my ex. we had broken up for nearly a year and a half (18 months). is there something wrong with me?

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